Dying dad can’t find his sister and we are getting desperate


DEAR DEIDRE: I’M desperately trying to contact my aunt on behalf of my dad, who has just been told he only has a couple of months to live after being diagnosed with cancer.

I’m a 41-year-old woman. My dad is 75.

We are desperate to find my dad’s sister before it’s too late
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He fell out with his oldest sister over a silly argument and they lost touch.

He would love to make amends before it’s too late.

We haven’t had any luck finding her as we don’t know much about her.

It could be that she is no longer alive.

Is there anything you can suggest to help us? We are at a loss and time is running out.

DEIDRE SAYS: I’m sorry your dad is so ill.

My e-leaflet on Tracing Someone has lots of suggestions on how to find her.

I hope you’re successful.

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These are going to be distressing months anyway.

You can all find some support and understanding through Macmillan Cancer Support (macmillan.org.uk, 0808 808 0000). My e-leaflet Has Someone Close To You Had Cancer Diagnosed? can help, too.

I will be thinking of you.

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